So, you catch your lover in bed with someone else.

Mankkeli did you set around with Ray Franz and talk about such thing as "what to do if you caught your lover in bed with someone else?

 I have seen you pm the newbie's here on this board what are you trying to do? I found just the title of your thread disgusting and upsetting. You told me that you were very good friends with Ray Franz and had stayed at his home to quote you  

("Please note this, Ray was my very good friend before He died, I even stayed by him through out the period of his spiritual onslaught, I am constantly using his experience to remind lurkers that our beloved Ray Franz didnt take rash decisions even while the tsunami was approaching, Rather,  He maintained his tranquility until He could no longer help himself. So, WHy should anyone think He or She would confidently spit on the organisation and not expect to inhale the harzadous air?. Lurkers must view all current  challeges and disturbing thoughts as part of their spiriual growth not as a medium to bully Jehovahs's wife(His earthly organisation).")

Is this what you talked with Ray about or is it what you use when you are this great elder! To quote you yet again  

("I'm still that elder everyone in the congregation wants to discuss their personal problems with and that brother with the most encouraging comments at the meetings. Although, It may be difficult in the beginning, to balance two different lifestyles, but after coming to view religion in general as one big "social club", It became so easy for me to go along with the programs mechanically. OODAD, Try it and see how wonderful it can really be. (I couldnt afford to to abandon my family because I want to prove that the JWs are wrong).")  You also said  ("I'm hanging out everywhere, While being active here, I'm equally active with spiritual matters both in the congregation, in the circuit and temporary assistance at the branch office. Even, the last apostafest in Stockhom was arranged by me.")

Your sick and scary. You said this about Outlaw

"OUTLAW - If you dont believe it, thats fine, it only reflect how denigrated you are mentally, It is not your fault, the fault is simon's who has hosted you. Scattered fellow."

I do not doubt that you very well might be an elder in some congregation nothing would surprise me anymore from a religion that hides and loves pedophiles.

I have read the posts of some of the new one and I have seen you mankkeli saying you are PMing them, all I can say is to all the new ones and the lurkers please be careful there are many on this board that are very kind and caring but then there are others that you truly need to stay away from. Finding the truth out about the religion is hard enough I hate disgusting  threads like he just started, just please be careful.

LITS 

it all depends on how attractive is the intruder... if I like them both.... then I will join both of them. if the third person is ugly then I take the next stpot ... after i am done then I will ask questions... and they day after i will take decisions.

lets be practical.

Thanks for the warning Life is too Short.

Personally I think that if one has a lover and they are not married then anything is feasable, it is the way of the world.  The term lover conjures up a purely sexual relationship. 

I am very fortunate in that I have total trust in my husband and cannot even think of this scenario as being remotely possible.

Invite some friends over. Get some booze and enjoy an orgy!

I so wish it would be another woman

CP

Love the list!!

I always told my now ex-husband that if he ever cheated on me, I'd kill him. Well....we're now divorced due to his affairs, and he's still alive....only because to kill him would be too much paperwork (or hiring someone to dispose of him), and I need the childsupport to help pay for daycare. LOL

Do you know anyone still alive only because you didn't want to go to jail? I do. haha

A guy I used to work with suspected his wife was having an affair and regularly drove by his home to check if any unusual cars parked nearby.

One day there was a car parked out side and he crept into the house to see if anything was happening.  Sure enough his wife was upstairs in bed, but with another WOMAN.

It devastated him.  He said he never suspected that and would have accepted the situation better had it been a guy she was seeing.

The next blow came when his wife and her lady friend got custody of the children.

George