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Gay and proud for a year

    TimothyT Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 10:36:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Wow… I can’t believe it has now been a year since I accepted that I’m gay. It has been the best year of my life for so many reasons. I have met my boyfriend who I adore, I have stopped lying to myself, my family and my friends, I am doing really well financially and spiritually, and of course, I am no longer a part of a deluded and oppressive religion.

    It feels so good to be free!

    Timmy xxx

     

    Alfred Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 11:08:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Since 9/10/2010

    congratulations Tim !!!

     

    venetian Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 11:32:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Since 1/7/2012

    Well done Tim! Its so good to see you finally be yourself. I've been reading your posts for a while and have seen your growth, fabulous mate!

    BTW I was formally known on here as Boyzone.

    xx

    Pams girl Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 13:14:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Since 2/6/2011

    Ive watched you blossom like a butterfly from the cocoon..........Im so happy for you Tim x

    shamus100 Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 13:17:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Congrats and welcome back Tim.  :)  

    nugget Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 13:18:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Since 11/22/2009

    It is so lovely to know that you have come so far since your original post and you are happier now. Good luck to you in the future.

    QuestioningEverything Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:05:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit


    United States Michigan

    Post 531 of 549
    Since 6/17/2008

    I am so happy that your life has continued to get better and better!  Isn't it wonderful?

    Found Sheep Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:30:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Since 5/13/2009

    good for you!!!  happy first year of life

    discreetslave Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:30:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Since 6/30/2011

    I'm so happy you!!!  You have found the real life!

    its_me! Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:32:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Since 3/12/2010

    Congratulations Timothy! The world is a much better place when people are actually happy. I think every happy person makes the world a bit better.

    pubtruth Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Tue, 21 Feb 2012 20:13:00 GMT (2/21/2012) edit




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    Since 7/26/2010

    Tim!

    I'm so happy for you, I can relate with the sentiment of being free!

    Do continue to be happy! :)

    WTWizard Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Wed, 22 Feb 2012 07:44:00 GMT (2/22/2012) edit




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    And shame on religion for condemning people that are truly gay and wish to practice it.  To me, that is not something that people should be judged for--any more than if I prefer wearing blue instead of black and white, or putting up Christmas lights in blue and purple instead of traditional green and red.  Any more than a religion should bash people for being gay, then make it difficult to impossible for them to meet the opposite sex and/or put them with a same-sex partner.  Whether it be by ordering people to just meet other men at a$$emblies when they are not gay, pairing them with a same-sex partner for a significant duration, or sending people to Nigeria on stupid missions in lieu of helping them meet the opposite sex, religions that prevent people from finding happiness ought to rot in Nigeria on their way to hell.  At least that way, people will know they are probably scams.

    Joliette Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Wed, 22 Feb 2012 07:57:00 GMT (2/22/2012) edit




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    Since 7/18/2010

    Good for you! Fellow LGBT ex-JW's here.

    WildeLover Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Wed, 22 Feb 2012 08:02:00 GMT (2/22/2012) edit




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    Since 8/3/2010

    well done Tim! you are a trailblazer! i wish i could have your success. One day though, one day!

    love and light to you

    WildeLover

    matt2414 Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Thu, 23 Feb 2012 00:24:00 GMT (2/23/2012) edit




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    Congratulations, Tim! You are a great role model for me and many others. Keep up the good work.

    Billy the Ex-Bethelite Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Thu, 23 Feb 2012 01:15:00 GMT (2/23/2012) edit


    Virgin Islands (U.S.)

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    Since 11/29/2007

    Timmy, does this mean that you are not missing the "spiritual association" and door-knocking busy-work of WTland?

    I suppose this is when the JWs would say that maybe you feel "happy" but you are not truly "joyful" without their spiritual guidance *barf*

    In reality, when I saw my grades at the end of last semester, I was happier and joyfullier than I ever was as a JW. And to be honest, my worst days as a fader are happier than my best days as a JW.

    sizemik Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Thu, 23 Feb 2012 01:25:00 GMT (2/23/2012) edit




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    It's been a pleasure to be on board with you.

    harleybear Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Thu, 23 Feb 2012 05:54:00 GMT (2/23/2012) edit




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    Tim:  So glad that you have such peace.  Good for you.  I am a straight female X-JW married to a never ever never JW man who is my best friend in the whole world.  We have several gay friends many  X J Dubs who are very important to us.  Your courage and convictions is awesome. 

    Rabbit Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Thu, 23 Feb 2012 05:59:00 GMT (2/23/2012) edit


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    moshe Re: Gay and proud for a year posted Thu, 23 Feb 2012 06:01:00 GMT (2/23/2012) edit


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    Its good to see someone leave the KH and get on with their real life.

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